Marriage & Relationships
I want to work with couples before they divorce because I know the pain of watching two parents’ inner children at war while the real children in the family suffer the consequences.
So many separations are for the better, but not until two whole adults are participating in a mutually beneficial separation will the family’s fracture not cause collateral damage in the children.
I know first hand that growing into a whole adult, which stops enabling your partner to also stay stuck in inner child, can often create an even better intimate relationship than the one they’re currently experiencing together.
My marriage became the vessel through which I reclaimed the real me.
This work ultimately saved my marriage by turning it into a balanced partnership between two adults.
What’s your Soul Truth in marriage?
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Resources for Marriage & Relationships
Angry? Where Are Your Boundaries?
Is Your Missing Intention For Your Relationship Sabotaging It?
Is Your Ego Where Your Boundaries Should Be?
Conscious Relationships When He’s Not Conscious
How To Be More Attractive To Your Child (Or Spouse!) Than A Video Game
The Authentic Wife (my book)
The Authentic Life (my comprehensive course)
Marriage Counseling Won’t Work. Here’s What to Do Instead.
"We went to a counselor, but they always just seem to bring it back to me, or make it about me and what I'm doing." <- This is what I hear from couples who are still really struggling in their relationship. It's sad because they both finally get to that point where...
The Soul Truth Self-Coaching Process by Beth Rowles
Read more about coaching for Parenting or Marriage. Here's a quick intro and how-to on my Soul Truth Self-Coaching Process! Download the workbook here. Transcript: Hey Friends! Welcome! Today I’m going to introduce you to the Soul Truth Self-Coaching Process which is...
Embracing Your Feminine Energy is Not Submitting to a Gender Role
Picture it: Sicily Frigid Ohio, five years ago. The bottom of my stainless steel sink is buried under a layer of baby bottles that must be washed tonight or her 3 AM wakeup is not going to go well. Tears stream down her face as soon as I walk away to do anything. The...
Angry? Where Are Your Boundaries?
If you’re an empath, having kids revealed any way you gave too much of yourself to the more narcissistic partner. Whatever imbalance existed--in meeting their needs over meeting your own--will be revealed because your kids don’t have an alternative; they depend on you...
Is Your Missing Intention For Your Relationship Sabotaging It?
“What’s your intention for your relationship?” << That’s one of the first questions I ask my clients. If I could sprinkle pixie dust on your relationship to make it perfect, whether it's with your spouse or child, what does that perfect look like, for you?...
What is a Conscious Parenting Coach?
A Conscious Parenting Coach is someone that has been extensively trained in child development, psychology, mindfulness, and emotional intelligence. As a Conscious Parenting Coach, my focus is the relationship, either between the parent and the child or between both...
Is Your Ego Where Your Boundaries Should Be?
Heart armor used to do the job of my missing boundaries. Maybe you know this armor as your ego. It's that voice inside your head that judges others as good or bad to make you feel safe and good. It's always trying to build us up so we don't feel pain. The more hurts...
Conscious Relationships When He’s Not Conscious
"He's not conscious, what do I do?" <-- Is this question on your mind? What the heck do we do with the relationship when we've done allllll this personal growth work and our husband is just lagging behind in unconscious-ville, all up in his ego? He's not parenting...
Is My Marriage Hurting My Child?
As a conscious parent, you’ll do everything in your power to give your kids the best life possible. This quiz looks at an overview of your marriage and home from your child’s perspective, to see how likely it is that what they are experiencing now is going to affect them in the future.
I blame love.
I blame love. We come into this world full of it, but then are told that in order to experience it from our parents, we better change. If you’re quiet, I’ll love you. If you pick up the mess, I’ll love you. If you lose weight, I’ll love you. If you get me a gift,...
Let’s Talk About Saving Your Marriage
When I see advice for couples in struggling marriages, it often includes things like "make a deposit in their emotional bank account." Or "focus on the positive." Or "go on a date night." Or "get over yourself and only worry about the WE." Well that's all fine and...
Why it’s hard to find true love
We are all looking for someone to love us, to recreate the love and nurturing we felt (or wanted to feel) during childhood. We find someone that makes us feel that way for a while and then decide to marry them.The problem is, relationships aren't to make us feel...
When One Parent is Behaving Badly
I have seen this question from parents countless times: My spouse is not a peaceful parent, what do I do??I'm going to generalize here, as I know this is not always the case, but typically out of a child's parents, one (typically male), is unlikely to want...
What a Man Cold is Here to Teach You!
I am so excited to talk about man colds. When I woke up today to one of those funny articles full of pictures of man colds versus mom colds, I had no idea I'd be writing about it later. Now, here I am, and I couldn't even wait to make the image...
But can you HEAR me, now?
We have a friend, I'll call her Susie, who is a very hard person to connect with. This is what it's like to talk to Susie:Me: I'm just feeling so frustrated. We want this house but it's at the high end of our budget. Susie: Oh, how much is...
How do you know when it’s time to leave your marriage?
How do you know when it's time to leave your marriage? Should I get a divorce? Is this marriage over?I see this question all of the time. While we all wait patiently for Dr. Shefali's relationship book, here are some basic thoughts when it comes to...
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super soul model:
noun
1. a married role model mom, aligned to her soul truth, inspiring her husband to reconnect to his
2. an individual living her purpose, aligned to the truth of who she is, inspiring her children to do the same
3. an entrepreneur serving her clients with an inspirational business guided by the expertise of her soul
